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Speaking frankly...Thank you to all the guests who contributed to this blog in recent weeks and thank you also to the staff at Mental Health Australia for keeping things moving in the right direction. Returning to work this week, one email stopped me in my tracks. It highlighted just how the marriage equality debate is affecting Australian families. The email was from a good friend of Mental Health Australia and the mental health sector, a friend who wants to remain anonymous to protect the children who are mentioned, and a friend who encourages us all to look at the current marriage equality debate through the eyes of the next generation. As I catch up on all that has happened over the six weeks I have been on leave, and in the light of the decision taken by the High Court of Australia yesterday, I thought it was timely to share with you. Marriage equality through their eyesTo say my children are the next stolen generation is completely offensive to Indigenous people, my partner and I, and my children. They are not growing up without either a mum or dad, rather they are lucky enough to be growing up with two mums and two dads. And grandparents and cousins and aunties and so on. They are surrounded by people who love them and want only the best for them. Surely children only benefit from more people loving them? It was no accident we had our children - it was well planned, negotiated and thought out. This doesn't make it easy of course. All parents know the juggle and struggle day-to-day parenting entails. However we do have another layer of complexity. “Why can't you and Mummy get married?”, “Is there something wrong with our family?”, “Why don't those people like our family?” Each child has a different response to this issue. The oldest has written to the Queen, Prime Minister, and to the Archbishop, unprompted by us, to outline how unfair this is. (The Queen and PM wrote back, Archbishop did not.) The youngest thinks if we just play dress up weddings enough then sooner or later we'll get to wear a tiara and a fluffy dress and marriage will magically happen. What they share however is a burning sense of “unfair!” They want their wedding thanks very much and can't wait for the laws to catch up. I can't wait for the law to catch up with them either. Not because of the tiara, but because it will be another step closer to removing the stigma and discrimination LGBTIQ people experience every day. And we do. You've seen the stats so I won't repeat them. I don't have to. I have only to think over the past month and come up with a list of small things we face and which can't help but affect each of us, especially our children:
This stuff is insidious. It gets in your head and in your psyche regardless of how much you might try not to let it. It does impact my, our and my children’s mental health and wellbeing. It does make us feel lesser, different, vulnerable. Is marrying my partner of 19 years really only a step above marrying an animal? What do you think that says to us? Makes us think about ourselves? I care about marriage equality for my community, my friends, my partner, and for myself. But mainly I care about it for my children. If we can't get this right, we will have failed them. And all the LGBTIQ families to follow. They deserve so much better. I deserve so much better. Anon. Marriage equality - think about mental healthMental Health Australia recently re-issued its Position Statement on marriage equality on Friday 11 August 2017. The statement highlights the negative effects of ongoing discrimination on the mental health of LGBTIQ Australians and calls on the Parliament to pass laws to establish marriage equality. Mental Health Australia also co-signed a joint statement with other health sector organisations that can be found here. Minister Hunt to deliver the Grace Groom Oration
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Meet a Mental Health Australia MemberAustralian Counselling AssociationThe Australian Counselling Association is Australia's largest single registration body for Counsellors and Psychotherapists with over 5,000 members. ACA serves a crucial role in advocating and advancing the profession of counselling and psychotherapy. View different membership levels and register today at http://www.theaca.net.au/ 2017 Australian Counselling Association, National Conference The 2017 Australian Counselling Association, National Conference will be hosted by ACA between September 16th and 17th, 2017 at the Rydges World Square in Sydney. The conference theme focuses on “Embracing Technology and Working with Young People”. The National Conference will explore the challenges new technology brings to counselling and mental health and how the younger generation have embraced it while many older generation professionals remain cautious with others being resistant. The conference will discuss both the positives and negatives including new challenges technology brings to counselling. Become a Member of Mental Health AustraliaAs the peak body for the mental health sector in Australia, Mental Health Australia is uniquely placed to influence the national debate on mental health issues and achieve our vision of mentally healthy people and communities. Representing more than 100 organisations in the mental health sector, find out more about Membership at the link below. Parliamentary NewsMs Glenys Beauchamp PSM to become Secretary of the
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RemindersWorld Suicide Prevention Day – 10 SeptemberInternational Association for Suicide Prevention Acting President, Prof Jane Pirkis, introduces World Suicide Prevention Day and its theme for 2017, "Take a minute, change a life." Click here to watch the video. R U OK?Day – 14 SeptemberR U OK?Day is a national day of action dedicated to reminding everyone that we’ve all got what it takes to ask, “are you ok?” and support those struggling with life . Taking part can be as simple as learning R U OK?’s four steps so you can have a conversation that could change a life. The day is about inspiring people to start these conversations every day of the year. Help get your school, workplace and community asking "are you ok?" with the resources below and our Every Day Resources. Nominations for the 2017 Australian Mental Health Prize extendedNominations for the 2017 Australian Mental Health Prize have been extended until 5pm Friday September 15th, 2017. What is the Australian Mental Health Prize? The Australian Mental Health Prize was established in 2016 by UNSW through its School of Psychiatry, Australia’s pre-eminent psychiatric research department, and recognises Australians who have made outstanding contributions to either the promotion of mental health, or the prevention/treatment of mental illness. Alcohol and mental health research surveyThe Institute of Alcohol Studies (IAS) in conjunction with the Centre for Mental Health is currently working on a project attempting to determine the relationship between alcohol and mental health. Through this, IAS are seeking opinions of workers in the mental health and the alcohol treatment sectors, to help form a report assessing the policy landscape surrounding alcohol treatment and mental health services. Lifeline Canberra BookfairLifeline Canberra's Bookfairs are the largest gathering of book-lovers in Canberra and they raise a major portion of the funding needed to the local 13 11 14 crisis support and suicide prevention service available to the community. So if you are in Canberra this weekend, head to Exhibition Park for the September Bookfair and lose yourself in the huge range of books, movies, music, games, comics and more, at our usual low prices! - Friday and Saturday from 9am, Sunday from 10am. Batyr currently recruiting for a School Program ManagerThe School Program Manager will be responsible for the design and operational delivery of the batyr@school programs, batyr@school Chapters, batyr@school for teachers PD and the batyr parent forums. Managing school relationships and leading a passionate team across the country this role will be pivotal to the growth and development of batyr programs, and as such the growth of the organisation across Australia. The Civil Voices survey is closing soonWhat is Civil Voices? Civil Voices is a vital research project that aims to build upon an existing evidence base to provide a comprehensive understanding of the state of advocacy in Australia's social sector. This is your unique opportunity to voice your organisation's experience with advocacy. Mental health nurse Julie Milard appointed to board of the
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